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When some experts are asked
how to become a dynamic leader in the workforce, they might
respond with some of the following suggestions: “Appear
confident when you enter a room,” “Let people know that you
are serious, smart, and determined,” or perhaps with the
simple advice, “Take control of the situation.”
However, in Powerful
Leadership your group will discover that:
"The Real Secret to
success in the workplace is not showing your employees
and clients how important you are, but allowing them to see
how important they are to you."
That's because, like a magnet,
we humans are drawn to those who allow us to be ourselves
and who make us feel good about who we are. People respond
when they feel like they matter. This is easily
accomplished by practicing what Russ calls the 3 “A”s:
Accept:
When you accept a person, you allow them to be who they
are while you remain you. You don’t have to want the
same for yourself or compromise your own personal values.
All you have to do is not force others to live up to your
standard of how people “ought to be.” It takes all kinds in
this world. Sometimes the most unlikely character will
surprise you.
Approve:
If you’d like to reach someone then find something to
approve of in them. It doesn’t have to be big. It can be
simple like the way they dress, their artistic ability,
sense of humor, or even their cool new shoes. Even your
worst enemy has something of which you can approve.
And here’s the really important part: let that individual
experience your approval. Say it out loud. Let them
know how great they really are.
Appreciate:
When is the last time you’ve been thanked too much? When is
the last time you’ve been told “I Love You!” too much? I am
going to guess . . . never. Everyone wants to be
appreciated. Finding some way to show people that you care
about them is sometimes all you need to break down the
toughest barriers. I’m not talking about throwing them a
parade. It can be simple a card, a thank you note, or
remembering a detail about their life and asking them about
it.
This last "A" - And the most
important of all - is a change within ourselves:
Acknowledge.
Acknowledge that
people are important. Don’t just say it to yourself on the
surface. You must believe it deep down inside. When
you develop the belief that others are more important than
yourself, it changes the way they communicate, the way they
enter a room, and the way they shake a hand. People
notice. People can tell how someone really feels about
them. That’s because being a dynamic leader in the
workplace isn’t about us. Leadership is about serving those
around us.
"When selecting performers, my image depends on those I have
hired. I am only as good at my job as you are at yours.
I thank you, Russ, for making me look great! I will
definitely be seeing you again for another performance this
summer."
IBM
"It was great for me to sit in the audience at your show and
hear the audience reactions from students as your show
progressed. They were entertained, they were mystified,
and they were laughing like crazy!"
Cal State University, Northridge
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YOUR AUDIENCE WILL:
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Learn the tools to bring out the best in their clients,
their peers, their employees and themselves.
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Discover how to build rapport
and develop lasting relationships, while they discover and
develop their own Personal Power.
- Follow the steps to appear
confident, intelligent, and “in control” of any situation.
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Take part in an incredibly entertaining and transformational
presentation that will change the way they do business...
not in a month... or a year... but by the time they stand at
the end of the show.
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